Fostering is an incredibly rewarding role. Like any job or responsibility in life, knowing you have a strong support network you can call upon if you need advice, reassurance, or a trusting friend is invaluable.
Mockingbird is an initiative where we match 10 Hull Fostering foster families together to encourage friendships, mutual support, and a natural place to form positive relationships between our foster children, and also amongst our foster carers.
Key Roles within the Mockingbird Constellation -
- hub home carer
- liaison worker
- satellite carers
Key elements of the model -
- foster carer led advice, guidance, and emotional and social peer support
- planned and emergency sleepovers
- formal and informal training and development opportunities
- whole community social activities
- support to permanence – birth family, long term placement, adoption, independence
- support with sibling and birth family contact
Why Mockingbird is so special
Mockingbird is an innovative method of delivering foster care, which we call 'an extended family model', that provides sleepovers, peer support, and social activities as a large family.
Having a Hub home foster carer in the centre, up to 10 foster families come together to form a Mockingbird constellation (family) and support each other.
Each Mockingbird family will be given their own liaison worker. Everyone within your Mockingbird constellation will naturally become extended members of each other's families.
Children and young people within the Mockingbird family will see the other adults as Aunts and Uncles and not necessarily foster carers offering respite care.
The children within the Mockingbird family will view the other children and young people as close friends, normalising being looked after and helping our carers to build strong friendships.
This type of fostering helps with continuity and unconditional care for our children and life-long friendships are made young and old.
Group Manager for Hull Fostering, Jayne Betts, said
The Mockingbird model in essence matches up-to 10 foster families together, providing a family style relationship, meeting up, organise day trips out together, sleepovers and offer support to one another like a typical extended family would.
Mockingbird 1 Hub carer, Lisa said
“These people came into my life only a few months ago as strangers and now I call them my family. Being a foster carer is unique and having a fostering family made up of carers to lean upon when needed is enormously helpful.
“When one of us is needing support, is poorly, or requires some respite, I know someone within my Mockingbird family will come to my rescue. Our foster children regularly play together, we go out for day trips and arrange sleepovers. The children do not class these sleepovers as respite, instead it’s a sleepover with their mates, which is how it should feel.
“Whenever other foster children come to my house, it feels so natural, they open my fridge, change the TV channel, go and play with my children, because they have become genuine friends."
Another Mockingbird carer, Heather, said
"In just a couple of months, us adults have helped each other out so many times, wrapping our arms around the ones who are having a bad time and cheered on those who are doing well. I am so proud of the Mockingbird Family and would encourage any other foster carers to join a Mockingbird family. It’s like we’ve known each other forever."
Annette, another Mockingbird foster carer, said; “We wanted to join the first Mockingbird Family in Hull so our foster child could make friends. But what we have gained being part of the Mockingbird Family has surpassed our expectations. I’ve made friends with other carers who are in a similar situation to us, I know I can reach out to anyone of these people and know they understand me and want to help all of us.”
Hull Fostering Launch Second Mockingbird Constellation
Hull Fostering already have one well established Mockingbird Constellation, and after almost 3 years of success, we have now launched our second Mockingbird constellation to offer even more support to our fostering community.
At the end of January 2024 our second Mockingbird Constellation launched at a welcome event held at Gravity in Hull, with some of the constellation meeting one another for the very first time.
Hub Carer for the newly launched constellation, Rhonda said
“Although I am new to the Mockingbird role, I have already seen what a great group and supportive network we will create together and I feel honoured to be a hub carer to this already wonderfully supportive group and help bring it into an established place of friendships, socialising, support, and shared knowledge and have some fun along the way for the children and carers!
“I feel like we can all make a difference within the mockingbird family, as any carer knows, you can feel isolated at times. This new way of a supportive network reminds us we have a team of support and information all in one group, and regular meet-ups and social events give us encouragement to keep going”.
Mockingbird Liaison worker Louise Greaves added
"I am over the moon with how it all went, the children all got on great and started to make friends already as did the adults, it was so heart-warming to see. We are looking forward to constellation 2’s future”.
Mockingbird’s impact
There is continuous analysis of the fidelity of the Mockingbird model and based on the latest reports we know -
- improved placement stability – reduced placement breakdown
- improved placement stability – reduced placement breakdown
- a network of strong and authentic relationships able to replicate the support offered by an extended family
- improved experience of peer support
- improved sibling contact
- improved process and experience of respite care
- improved skills, confidence and role satisfaction for foster carers
- improved levels of carer retention and recruitment
- a strong, robust and resilient structure able to support children, young people and fostering families through times of crisis and transition.
- improved experience of birth family contact
- costs saved and costs avoided
Mockingbird fidelity
Mockingbird is an evidence-based model supported by clear fidelity criteria. Key components of the Mockingbird fidelity checklist include -
- 6 to 10 satellite homes in a constellation
- each constellation provides care to 6 to 18 looked after children and young people. Constellation members, both adults and young people, should be diverse in terms of age, experience, strengths and needs
- constellation supported to build a micro community based on an extended family concept
- hub home is geographically close to the satellite homes
- hub home has 2 spare Mockingbird beds available for sleepovers by the constellation
- hub home carer is available nearly 24/7
- hub home carer hosts monthly constellation meetings. They provide planned and spontaneous opportunities for social events and interactions between the hub home and the satellite families.
- the ‘Mockingbird liaison worker’ role is a key support for hub home carer to prevent burnout
- collaborative working – the service must support the hub home carer and members of the constellation to problem solve. For example, deciding when to offer crisis respite or delegation of authority